The first dental visit may be the most important. This will shape their minds and form opinions that will last forever. Most people with dental fear will reveal they had some kind of trauma when they were young. The goal is to make this visit as pleasant as possible.
Whether you choose a pedodontist (children’s dentist) or a family practice general dentist depends on your child. Each parent knows his or her child’s personality best. If in doubt talk to the dentist prior to the visit.
Most children visit the dentist around three years of age. I would suggest that your child go to a couple of visits with you, that way they are prepared and familiar. If they see you having a cleaning it will encourage them.
A gift from the toy chest certainly doesn’t hurt. Remember, positive reinforcement.